Saturday, 3 April 2010

I guess it could qualify so . . . 30 Secrets: Number 3

If I tell you how much you mean to me or how much I love you, I'll never get a chance to finish.
Secret number three: I think I've fallen for my best friend. I've been best friends with him for 11 years. About 5 years ago my family moved across the road from his. Since then I go round to his house everyday without fail, I practically live there! I tell him everything and he tells me everything. When I'm round we often cuddle or play fight and we frequently get mistaken for being a couple. I know he likes me and he told another friend that he thinks he may love me. He's very protective and he got dangerously drunk one time because I hooked up with another guy at a party we were both at. I think I like him also but I don't know whether to tell him because I'm absolutely terrified of losing the friendship. He means more to me than anything in this world and I wouldn't know what to do with myself if we weren't friends.

18 comments:

UnconditionalLove said...

Aww I lovee yourr blog!

AnaVar said...

This is a hard one! I believe friendship will last longer. Or go drunk together in some quiet place... this may give you (or him) the guts to make a first step ...and if regret it next day, you can still say you were drunk ;)

iJustwantTobeSomuch said...

I think that if I were you, I would tell him how you feel. If you are as close as you say, then he should be perfectly fine with you telling him anything, even if you are scared to do it. If you never tell him, you'll never know what could have happened. Besides, I'm sure he feels the same way or has at least thought about it too. He'll be glad that you brought it up and then you can hopefully be best friends and more (:

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Anonymous said...

At this point if you're comfortable with each other, I saw go for it. If it doesn't work out I'm sure since your relationship was so close that it would maybe leave a dent, but you would both be able to live with it. Have confidence!
:)

Anonymous said...

Very intresting u seem to be living the life i want. Give it lol only joking.

Anonymous said...

this is so cute! i would say go for it but i'm in a similar situation and i'm scared too :/ buut go for it!

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anonymous said...

i my self at one point was in a similar situation its hard i know and let me tell you something life is defiantly to short to regret because till this day i always wonder what could have happend.....
in my eyes its best to take a chance and fail then not too and regret.

SoccerLover1210 said...

Don't you think you should tell him? You can't spend your life thinking, "What if I told him?" You have to put yourself out there and out of your comfort zone. believe me, I have been there. And the worst that could happen would be that he would say no, but I believe he would still be close friends with you. And if he said yes, you would have a boyfriend, he would have a girlfriend, and the relationship would be stronger than ever. i really enjoyed your blog, even though this is my first time reading it. I will continue to check on it. Hope this helped!! :) and good luck!!! :)

crazy cake lady said...

Aww. I hope you told him, or do tell him! That's so lovely. <3

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foorabs said...

I became lovers with my best friend I haven't been happier since <3

caffeinetaffy said...

I think he really does love you since he's protective and even got sad when you hooked up with another guy. I think you guys sound like you'd make a great couple.. Just tell him how you feel and see what he thinks. And if things don't work out you can always be friends after. :)

rockydavy said...

wow . this is so adorable. its such a beautiful thing to have a real friendship . its something that seems almost impossible to find. i say do what your heart tells you and because you guys are best friends it will work out in the end because you guys will find a way to laugh about after the outcome whether bad or good . i wish you the best darling. live well lovely.

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